How does one succeed in life?
11.06.2025 09:48
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
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Procrastinates a lot.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
What does 'Whose flesh is like the flesh of donkeys’ mean (Ezekiel 23:20)?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
What do you think is the most powerful line in the song "Non, Je Ne Regrette Rien" by Édith Piaf?
Does not procrastinate.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Is it true that Jehovah's witnesses once thought the world would end in 1975?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Were knights’ lances practical weapons, or were they just for sports?
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Do not set goals—set systems.
That's it for today.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
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What I need from you?
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Ask yourself:
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Making more friends is a goal.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).